Embrace your vata

Feeling indecisive? Use this technique to embrace your vata and make decisions easier.

 

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I was on a call with a potential client a few days ago, and we were discussing future goals. He has a successful position in sales, knows that he wants to transition into a different position, but doesn’t know exactly what that position would be.

As we discussed some of the reasons why he was having difficulty envisioning a future dream, he said “I just have all of these different options in my head- there are so many ways that I can go, and I don’t know which is the right one.”

Something clicked in my head – “Ah-ha! My dear- you are vata.”

He looked at me a little confused, so I explained.

Vata is one of the three doshas, or qualities, in Ayurveda. Vata is a way of describing things, people, or times of day. Vata is fall – it’s the brisk breeze and the cooler temperatures. It’s dryness. It’s airy-ness. It’s you looking at a huge menu and feeling overwhelmed. It’s willy-nilly dreaming without making a decision. That is vata.

Now vata can be both good and bad. Your vata can be in balance, which means that you’re able to see all of the moving parts of a situation and bring them together to create unique solutions. Or it can be out of balance, which means that you’re starting tons of projects without finishing them, or feeling unable to actually pin something down and accomplish it.

When our vata goes out of balance, it’s easy to get into a panic. Things aren’t getting done and we feel a little lost. It’s like walking through an unknown place and reaching a room with 20 doors. They all look good, and you can’t seem to decide which is the best.

If you’re having a hard time pinning down your next steps, the answer is not to deny your vata and try to brute-force choose an answer. Instead, your job is to indulge your vata. Take advantage of all of the possibilities you see in front of you.

When we get lost in that hallway with all of the doors, our problem is that we don’t fully understand what’s behind each door, so we don’t know what to choose. If instead we indulge the vata and actually see where each door leads, you can actually make a decision.

The best way to do this is to get out a pen and paper (or a digital way of documenting your work), and lay out all of the options you see in front of you. Follow each scenario: what would happen if you took that job or moved to that city? What are the pros and cons? What would your life be like? What is the worst that could happen? As you actually play out the scenarios, each choice becomes more real. Instead of an ethereal potential, it becomes a practical reality.

As you indulge your vata, you give your brain space to calm down, to settle back to the earth, and actually move forward with the full assurance that you’ve thought it through.

This week’s assignment:

Think of a decision you’re having a hard time making. What are all of the different possibilities in front of you? Get out a pen and paper, and play these scenarios out.  You can share your experience in the comments below or with other members of our Happy Healthy Human community in our private Facebook group. Your experience might bring you or someone else exactly the inspiration needed to take the next step. Thank you for sharing!

 

 

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Healthy Apple Cider Muffins -gluten free & vegan!

Try these healthy apple cider muffins if you need a dose of fall and a simple, healthy treat to energize your day!

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I wear a lot of hats during my day. Sometimes I’m in the kitchen making healthy food for my snack food line or for my cooking classes. You can find me leading yoga classes, or helping individuals improve their energy and diet through personalized wellness plans.

 

You could say that’s a lot of different things, but to me, they’re all unified under the goal of helping people live their happiest, healthiest life in full alignment with their values and goals. The yoga, the nutrition, the food, those are just some of the tools I use to help people get there.

 

So even though sometimes we’re talking about headstand, and sometimes we’re talking about how to prioritize your schedule….they’re all with the same goal of living your life in full alignment.

 

It’s with this goal that I started throwing Yoga Parties. A yoga party is a yoga class with tea, snacks, and time to talk and hang out with friends new and old after class. It lasts a little longer than your typical yoga class, but you also get the benefits of nourishing your body and meeting new friends.

 

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My first few Yoga Parties were held in Meridian Hill Park, and were they a blast. Most participants said their favorite part was connecting with new people they wouldn’t have met otherwise. It was amazing.

 

The Yoga Parties will be slowing down for the winter season, but I’m excited to continue to bring food, yoga, and community together at some other events this winter (be sure to check out my calendar for the latest updates!)

 

Now onto the muffins. I made these apple cider muffins for my last yoga party because I wanted a delicious, filling treat with flavors of fall. These muffins do not disappoint.

 

They’re made with a combination of almond, oat, and chickpea flours for a high-protein blend of gluten free flours! I use flax to replace the egg, and apple cider to sweeten it up. They’re moist, light, and delicious!

 

Check out the recipe below, and let me know in the comments: what does living a life of alignment mean to you?

 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 

 

Apple Cider Muffins
 
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Serves: 20 mini muffins
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  • 2 tbsp flax seed, ground
  • 6 tbsp water
  • 1 cup oat flour (or ground oats)
  • ¾ cup chickpea/garbanzo flour
  • ¾ cup almond flour
  • ¾ cup brown sugar
  • 2 tbsp hemp hearts
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 2 tsp baking powder
  • 1 cup apple cider
  • 6 tbsp melted coconut oil
  • 1 tsp cinnamon
Instructions
  1. Preheat oven to 350F
  2. Mix ground flax seeds with water in a small bowl.
  3. Mix ground oats, chickpea, almond flour, sugar, salt, baking powder, and hemp hearts together.
  4. Heat up the apple cider until gently boiling and then combine it with coconut oil.
  5. Add coconut oil/apple cider to the dry flours, and mix until combined.
  6. Then, fold in the flax seed mixture and mix gently until JUST mixed.
  7. Pour into muffin tins, bake for 30 min or until firm.
  8. Let muffins cool in tins.
  9. If you like moist muffins - spoon a teaspoon of apple cider on cooked muffin tops as they cool!
  10. Store in sealed container or freeze for later use!

 

 


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WeLive Fall Flavors: Lentil Soup Recipe

Make this lentil soup recipe if you need a fast, satisfying Fall dinner. It’s filling, delicious, and super healthy – a crowd pleaser for sure! 

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In my opinion, there are lots of things to love about fall. Slightly cooler temperatures, beautiful leaves changing colors, pumpkins and birthdays and halloween…it’s a fabulous time.

 

One of my favorite parts of fall? The food. Everything gets a little cozier and warmer, which suits my vata dosha quite well.

 

It’s been especially nice to introduce my favorite fall flavors at my bi-weekly healthy cooking class at WeLive. We’ve been making soups, Buddha Bowls, and warming foods.

 

This past week, I made my favorite lentil soup recipe. It combines Indian spices like cumin, turmeric, and coriander with a healthy dose of greens from kale and parsley, and a splash of hearty tomato to round out all of the flavors. This soup has it all. It’s hearty, healthy, and satisfying.

 

Serve this soup on it’s own, over some rice, or with your favorite starch of choice. Most importantly, it’s a great leftover soup, so don’t be afraid to double the recipe!

 

Happy Fall, my darlings!

 

Lentil Soup with Rice Roasted Mango
 
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Ingredients
  • 3 Tbsp olive oil
  • 1 white or yellow onion, finely diced
  • 1 Tbsp ground cumin
  • 1 Tbsp ground coriander
  • ¾ tsp sea salt
  • 4 stalks celery, chopped
  • 4 carrots, chopped
  • 3 cups dried lentils, rinsed
  • 32 oz diced tomatoes
  • 1 bunch kale, chopped
  • 1 tsp pepper
  • 1 tsp turmeric
  • ½ tsp cayenne pepper
  • 1 lemon
  • 1 bunch parsley
  • 2 tsp nutritional yeast
  • 1 cup almond yogurt
Instructions
  1. Heat oil, onion, cumin, coriander, and ¼ tsp salt in a large stock pot over medium heat.
  2. Once soft, add chopped celery and carrots. Heat through for 5 minutes.
  3. Add rinsed lentils and enough water to cover the lentils. Cook until soft (~20 minutes).
  4. Add diced tomatoes, turmeric, pepper, and salt to taste.
  5. When fully heated, add kale and lemon juice.
  6. Serve sprinkled with parsley, nutritional yeast, and almond yogurt!

 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 


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Is it true?

When you’re upset with a situation or someone around you – ask yourself: is it true? You might just find that your brain (read: ego) is creating stories, rather than truly understanding what’s going on.

 
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“I saw it with my own eyes.” That’s the ultimate measure of truth, right?

We rely on our senses to tell us what’s happening around us. But we often forget that there’s actually two steps in that process: First we see something, and then our brain interprets our vision.

In yoga philosophy, they talk about “perception” and “right perception”.

The first perception is that which you see, smell, hear, taste or touch. You sense something and make a judgment about it. For example, you hear a siren and assume that there is a fire across town. Or you taste a dish and decide that there must be lemon in it.

But then there’s right perception: the absolute truth. Right perception is the fact that the siren was actually because of a cat caught in a tree. Or that the lemon flavor was actually lemon thyme (a pretty fabulous herb that actually tastes just like lemon juice).

These are some pretty innocuous examples, but this distinction is incredibly important when thinking about situations that bring us stress, frustration, sadness, and anger.

Think about it: someone cuts you off when you’re driving. “Oh, that guy. He was probably looking at his phone and wasn’t caring about the people around him.”

Your partner doesn’t pick up your repeated calls. “Why doesn’t she care about me?”

These distressing thoughts cause pain and hurt that can last hours or even days.

What if the guy cut you off because he just found out his wife was going into labor?

What if your partner didn’t answer the calls because her battery died while in a long meeting?

Our brains assess, judge, and compartmentalize. We take in all of the information and then come to the best conclusion we can. But those conclusions are not always right.

The good news is that we can leverage this information to boost our happiness.

Here’s what you do:

In a situation that’s causing you stress, ask yourself “do I know that this is true?” Tell the story only with the guaranteed truth (for example, “the person cut me off”, or “my partner hasn’t picked up her phone in 2 hours.”) Explore possible reasons that this could happen, including the possible reasons that would make this a not stressful situation. Then, decide how it would be best to find out the objective truth, or if there’s anything you need to do at this time.

This week’s assignment:

Think of a stressful situation from the last week. What was the source of the stress? Was it the actual situation or your assessment of the situation? What would the situation have been without that stress-filled assessment? You can share your experience in the comments below or with other members of our Happy Healthy Human community in our private Facebook group. Your experience might bring you or someone else exactly the inspiration needed to take the next step. Thank you for sharing!

 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 

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How new habits form

Save yourself time and frustration: learn how to break bad habits and to form new habits!

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When you were born, you had about 86 billion neurons. That’s 86 billion nodes by which electrical signals (i.e., conscious and subconscious thought) could be transferred. Each day, signals get sent in particular directions, controlling your speech, your hand-eye coordination, your musicality…and just about everything else in your body.

 

As you repeat specific actions or patterns, like throwing a ball, or saying your name, the connections get stronger. It’s like a path in the middle of the woods: as you tread through the same routes over and over, they get more defined and distinct.

 

At the same time, your brain is pruning other connections that it’s deemed you don’t need. It’s in this period where things haven’t been pruned so much that makes kids so great at picking up new skills, like speaking a second language. They have so many connections in their brain that learning happens better and faster than it does in adults.

 

Why the brain lesson?

If you’re a longtime reader of this newsletter, you know that we talk a lot about habits. Habits are essentially those well-worn paths in our brains. We perform these actions automatically and without too much effort.

 

If you’re trying to change a habit, learn something new, or react differently in specific situations, it’s like you’re walking through a vast forest. You might make your way through it, but it’s dark, full of branches, and difficult to find your way.

 

The second time you find yourself there, you recognize a tree or two. You remember where that particularly treacherous ditch was.

 

The third time, you take a quicker pace. You start to leave markers that tell you which direction to go and which paths to avoid.

 

Each time gets easier and easier, you get faster and faster, and that path becomes more well worn.

 

Understanding this is key to forming new habits and breaking bad ones.

 

We want instant results.

We think that when it takes us a long time to learn something that we’re dumb.

We feel that if we’re 100% consistent with our new habits, we lack motivation or are otherwise deficient.

 

In truth? We’re playing out our biology. We’re foraging through paths unknown. And while the forest is dark, we’re building signposts to make a brighter future possible.

 

When you embark on a new habit, I ask you to have compassion for your brain that is trying to make a journey through a dark forest. I ask you to keep trying again and again to build the new habit. Know that you are laying down the foundations for a clear path, and help you brain out by removing yourself from situations or placing yourself in situations that make success easier.

 

Your assignment:

Think back to a habit you’ve tried to give up or change in recent months. What was the process like? Did it get easier over time? What can you learn about your experience for another habit that you’d like to change? You can share your experience in the comments below or with other members of our Happy Healthy Human community in our private Facebook group. Your experience might bring you or someone else exactly the inspiration needed to take the next step. Thank you for sharing!

 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 

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WeLive Spiralized Zucchini and Basil Omelet

This spiralized zucchini and basil omelet is the perfect veggie-filled addition to your brunch or weeknight dinner. It’s high in protein and super filling.

 

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It’s time for another recipe from my cooking class at WeLive. If you’re unfamiliar with WeLive and are curious why an apartment building is holding biweekly cooking classes for their residents, read my previous post all about it here.

 

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At my cooking class, we served this omelet with a kale salad and roasted sweet potato fries to make a complete, delicious meal.

 

Don’t have a spiralizer? No problem. Simply cut the zucchini into 1/2 inch slices, and it will still taste delicious!

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When you make this recipe – make sure to take a photo and tag @happyhealthysam so I can see your amazing meal!

 

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This spiralized zucchini and basil omelet is the perfect veggie-filled addition to your brunch or weeknight dinner. It’s high in protein and super filling.
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Ingredients
  • 4 eggs
  • 1 zucchini
  • 1 handful basil leaves
  • 2 tbsp Dijon mustard
  • 2 tbsp honey
  • Olive oil
  • 1 small onion, diced
  • salt
  • pepper
Instructions
  1. Dice ½ onion and sauté on medium heat with olive oil in a pan until translucent.
  2. Spiralize zucchini and add to the onion, salting the zucchini.
  3. Crack eggs and mix in a large bowl. Add chopped basil, salt, and pepper.
  4. Pour eggs over the zucchini and cook in a covered skillet until eggs are just set.
  5. Remove from the pan and place on a serving dish.

 

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Can you be too grateful?

Feeling like you don’t deserve all that’s being given to you? It’s possible to feel too grateful, leading to low self-esteem. Learn how to overcome the too grateful trap in this post.

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Today’s message is simple, and comes from a conversation I had with a client last week.

 

The Situation

She’s in the midst of entering into a new business partnership, and she expressed some fear. Amidst her excitement about the potential gains from the relationship, she also found herself wondering “what if they decide they want to back out? What if they’re unhappy with my work? Why are they spending this time working with me, when they could be working with better, more experienced people?”

 

This feeling of “not enough” isn’t just in business partnerships. It can show up in a new job, when working with a doctor or other professional, or in romantic relationships.

 

We’re reminded on a daily basis to express gratitude. We’re told we need to appreciate the situations and people around us.

 

But gratitude can be taken too far. When we find ourselves overly grateful, we’re actually denying some of our power.

 
We forget that in any relationship, personal or professional, both parties are there of their own free will. The other person or group benefits from the relationship, just like you.

 

As a result, you end up denying your full independence in the relationship.You make concessions you wouldn’t dream of doing otherwise. You don’t express your true needs and desires, for fear that the other party won’t approve.

 

Ultimately, it just leads to being burnt out, depressed, and unfulfilled by the relationship you were once so grateful for.

 

A new way:

 

Instead of feeling overly grateful for your new boss, recognize that you are an awesome worker that will be helping her out as well.

 

When you want to bring an extra presents for your friend – ask yourself why you’re doing it. Is it because you genuinely saw these gifts and knew they’d be perfect for him, or are you trying to “earn your keep”?

 

Remind yourself that you’re not the only lucky one. The other person is pretty damn lucky to be with you as well. Act from this place, and watch your relationships grow stronger, more secure, and be that much more satisfying.

 

Your Assignment:

What relationship in your life do you find yourself being grateful to the extreme? What benefit is the other party getting out of the relationship? Email me and let me know!

 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 


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Simple Homemade Hummus Recipe

This simple homemade hummus is easy to make and is the perfect accompaniment for your lunch box, with carrot sticks, or at your next party. It’s high in protein, contains healthy olive oil and parsley, and tastes delicious!

 

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What recipe do I probably get the most use out of in my life?

Hummus.

I make my hummus recipe during Sunday meal prep for lunches and afternoon snacks, use it as a protein source in collard wraps and burritos, and bring it out as a dip when I have people over for parties.

Inevitably at these parties, people are amazed at just how great homemade hummus tastes when compared to the usual dip you pick up at the store. It’s amazing just how much flavor it has when compared to what you buy in the store.

Homemade hummus has a few other added benefits:

-no weird ingredients or preservatives

-no random vegetable oils

-cheaper than buying hummus

-super easy to make!

So today on the blog I’m letting my biggest party trick out for all of you. Enjoy!

When you make this recipe – make sure to take a photo and tag @happyhealthysam so I can see your amazing meal!

Simple Homemade Hummus
 
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This simple homemade hummus is easy to make and is the perfect accompaniment for your lunch box, with carrot sticks, or at your next party. It’s high in protein, contains healthy olive oil and parsley, and tastes delicious!
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Serves: 608
Ingredients
  • 2 cans chickpeas
  • 2 tbsp tahini (unsalted)
  • 2 tbsp lemon juice
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 tbsp olive oil
  • 1 tsp chopped parsley (or more!)
Instructions
  1. Combine all ingredients in a food processor or blender.
  2. Taste and adjust seasoning as necessary.
  3. Refrigerate before serving.

 

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Is that opinion needed?

Is someone’s opinion needed, and can you just make the decision yourself? Today’s article post details the subtle ways we undermine our own confidence by ignoring our own expertise.

 

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The background

I’m often asked why I decided to become a coach. I started my career in public health, so why did I start to work with individuals instead? If I wanted to change the world through better health and nutrition, why focus on individuals, when there is potentially great reach by focusing on the population?

 

The main reason is because I saw the power of coaching in my own life.When I was a PhD student at UNC, I started working with a career coach. And that decision completely changed the trajectory of not only my career, but also my life.

 

Amazingly (to those that know me now), I started working with my coach because I wanted to decide whether to focus my public health nutrition career on international or US-based nutrition. After 8 months of coaching, I launched a website, signed up for yoga teacher training, and started working with my first client. 16 months after that, I completed my PhD and moved to Washington, DC to take my business full time.

 

All of this happened because of one huge shift that my coach and I worked together on: I learned to trust myself.

 

Instead of questioning every decision, writing long, detailed pro-con lists, or consistently saying “I don’t know what I want!”, I started focusing on what it is that I did want. I learned that I was actually pretty darn good at making decisions, and had the power to make them myself.

 

That change allowed me to get real about what I wanted from my personal and professional life. Yoga taught me that my muscles and body are stronger than I think. But this work made me realize that my emotional fortitude was just as strong.

 

The premise

My coach and I were talking the past week about trust once again. Specifically, I was asking whether there was a good time and place for venting your feelings when in the midst of making a decision. I was thinking it could be useful to talk out the different sides of an issue with someone.

 

“Why do you need to do that? What does it give you?” She asked.

 

And then I realized: All it gives is validation. It can artificially put your fears to rest. It can stop you from doing what you’re scared to do, and it shows you what’s right for that person, not what’s right for you.

 

“People talk too much.” She continued. “All that talking shows you is that you aren’t trusting yourself to make the decision yourself.”

 

Cue brain explosion/light going off.

 

The insight

I thought “trusting myself” meant making decisions on my own. But it also means that you don’t need other people’s opinions about those decisions, even if you ultimately make them yourself.

 

Now of course – if it’s a medical decision, a legal issue, or you’re working with a plumber – by all means, get their opinion. They have true expertise that you don’t have and don’t need to have.

 

But when it comes to your schedule, a shirt you’re going to buy, what you’ll order, or what job you should take…who truly knows the answer better thank you do?

 

The easiest way to notice this phenomenon at work is to actually see it in other people. Look at the conversations you’re having, and notice how many times people are seeking opinions from everyone around them.

 

Then, start to watch your own speech. When are you simply sharing information, and when are you seeking validation or advice? Can you retreat from those conversations and find your own answers? Notice how satisfying it is to decide for yourself.

 

Put it into practice

What’s a decision you’re trying to make that has you wanting to seek advice and conversation from people around you? If that person was not available to talk to…what would your decision be? That might be the exact answer that you need.

 

Leave a comment below to let me know what decision it is you just made on your own. I can’t wait to hear and celebrate with you.

 

 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 


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Make a better to-do list

Check out these tips to clear up your to-do list and be satisfied with your days work!

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Life moves pretty fast. Between careers, families, friends, communities, all of can claim we have “busy” lives. But do we use busy as an excuse for not returning a phone call, for why we were a little short with our spouses, or for furrowing our brow and plowing through a checklist of tasks?

 

I’ll let you in on a little secret: you will always be busy, and the checklist is neverending. This became very apparent to me this past week when I finally made it to the holy grail of internet productivity: inbox zero. I felt so clean. So shiny and new.
 
But even as I was admiring my work – *bing!* – another email.
 
And then another.
 
Sure, it will be easier to maintain a clear inbox starting from zero instead of 500. However, the fact remains that if I became attached to the feeling of inbox zero, I could spend a lot of energy trying to achieve that simple goal, rather than thinking about the purpose behind inbox zero: actually responding and engaging with my friends and family.
 

The same can be said about our daily health practices – those little things we do every day to maintain our health and feel our best. Getting enough sleep. Eating an extra serving of vegetables. Going for that run. Taking quiet time. It’s easy to breeze through these tasks, thinking that by checking them off our list, we’ve achieved them and we’ve been successful.

 
But the truth is – checking these things off our list are hollow victories if we don’t actually take the time to notice what we are doing, and why we are doing it.

 
A 20-minute run spent worrying about a tomorrow’s deadline is much less therapeutic than a run spent simply enjoying your run.
 
Your could pass the time instead by noticing how great it is to be out with your dog, or amazing at the fact that you go 2.5 miles in the time it used to take you to go 2. I can guarantee you that you’ll feel differently at the end of the run based on your mindstate during it.
 
I should mention now that I have not mastered being mindful of my daily health practices. I realized this week that I was breezing through the things I love, simply to get them checked off a list, and as a result – the satisfaction was just not there. Don’t turn tasks that should build you up and refresh your energy into tasks that drain you and feel tiring instead.
 

So how can you find more meaning in your checklist this week? Here’s my most important tip.

  1. Write out everything you have to do today.
  2. Next to each item, write down the purpose for all of the items. Why does each item appear? What does it give you?
  3. Cross off all the items that either don’t have to get done today, or don’t bring you direct positive benefit (you’ll probably get rid of 50% or more).
  4. For everything let on your list, name one reason you’re grateful that it’s on your list. For example, if you have to go to the vet, be grateful that you have a delightful dog or cat in your life. If you’re cleaning your kitchen, gratitude for your amazing friends and dinner party you had last weekend.

 
With your abbreviated list – smile. You’ll go through your day with intentionality and the knowledge that you’re a damn lucky human being.

 
 

  Thanks for reading, and have a wonderful day,   samantha attard sig

 

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samantha attard happy healthy humanSamantha Attard, PhD, is the founder of Happy Healthy Human. Sam is a performance coach, yoga instructor, and makes delicious snacks to help you eat with intention. Learn more here.

 

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